The title quote from The Sword In the Stone actually describes the exact opposite of my last 3 weeks. It was a continuation from the terrible weather of last year which was cold with an average westerly wind of 30-40mph. We did have more days which involved the sun coming through the clouds this year though. It was sunny one day which is one day more than last year. Time-wise it is a weird mix of modern and mongoloid technology and culture. The whole place runs on diesel; diesel engines, diesel stoves, diesel generators. Millions of gallons of diesel every year.
Ashley reported to you that our boat was broken. We had some engine troubles which had the potential of shutting us down for the rest of the year. Luckily we found a mechanic and the parts we needed to fix the problem. It wasn't a really tough issue it is just that resources up there are extremely limited and getting someone to devote 2 days to tearing an engine apart, fixing the problem, and putting it together alone is tough enough. Add to the mix that all the parts we needed (which weren't many thankfully) had to be flown in it is a miracle that we were able to get back out on the water. Luckily everything came together, we spent two hurried days trying desperately to get back to fishing. We missed about 12 hours of fishing time (two "openings") and worked hard, sometimes carrying 50+ pound parts up and down a ladder on a pier (thankfully not dropping anything into the water, mud, or people below us). Fortunately we got everything fixed and were able to fish again; unfortunately we had one more 4 hour opening to fish before the fish just stopped coming. After that we waited a week for fish to come that didn't and then went home. That's how that goes.
Here is a picture I thought some of you would enjoy. I was not present when it was taken. We arrived in Alaska to find that our food had been rummaged through and the individuals who take care of it for use (as it has to be shipped up by barge in a plastic tote and then sits for a month before we get there) had photo evidence of the thief. Naturally we thought better of pressing charges.
Apparently bears love Pringles and Orange Gatorade because that was the extent of our losses. She tried to eat our plastic cutlery as well but it obviously was not very appealing to her.
Once you pop you can't stop.
E
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Monday, July 11, 2011
Music Monday!
Hello Folks,
I should be home safe and sound by now in a real bed thinking that my last 3 weeks was just someone else's dream (**He actually gets into Seattle at 23:39 tonight).
I have just completed my 10th season in Bristol Bay. This year it has been 3.5 weeks in a remarkably small living space with the same individuals. We have a lot of fun together but sometimes we just need the space we don't have; it can really drive a guy crazy.
In honor of being driven mad, this is Siskiyou with Never Ever Ever Ever Again
I believe that wavering sound in the background is someone playing the saw. I love it when musicians add the saw to their repertoire.
Keep your sea legs wobbling.
EDO
I should be home safe and sound by now in a real bed thinking that my last 3 weeks was just someone else's dream (**He actually gets into Seattle at 23:39 tonight).
I have just completed my 10th season in Bristol Bay. This year it has been 3.5 weeks in a remarkably small living space with the same individuals. We have a lot of fun together but sometimes we just need the space we don't have; it can really drive a guy crazy.
In honor of being driven mad, this is Siskiyou with Never Ever Ever Ever Again
I believe that wavering sound in the background is someone playing the saw. I love it when musicians add the saw to their repertoire.
Keep your sea legs wobbling.
EDO
Saturday, July 09, 2011
Unheard of.
I worked last night from 7pm till 7am. It was the first of two night shifts (I had saying, "see you tonight" as I leave the hospital).
That isn't unheard of.
Before my first night shift I usually get up at 8am and then have a normal day. I may take a nap, but that isn't the usual. I just suck it up and make my way through the night shift. I am very bad at sleeping during the day. My first night shift isn't usually too bad though. Staying up for 24 hours isn't that tough.
Between my nights I usually manage to sleep from about 8am-11am and then I hang around my bed reading or watching movies or just trying to rest. I try take an intentional "nap" (which usually just consists of shutting my eyes and unsuccessfully begging myself to fall asleep) in the afternoon sometime, maybe from 3-5ish.
That's the norm.
Today when I woke up I oddly felt rested. I thought "it must be at least 1pm!" and I was so excited. Actually as I walked to the kitchen to check out the time I was praying it was after 12pm. And it was!!! Imagine my shock and amazement when I glanced at the clock and saw that it was 4:15 pm!
4:15pm! I got 8 hours of sleep!!!!
Unheard of.
That isn't unheard of.
Before my first night shift I usually get up at 8am and then have a normal day. I may take a nap, but that isn't the usual. I just suck it up and make my way through the night shift. I am very bad at sleeping during the day. My first night shift isn't usually too bad though. Staying up for 24 hours isn't that tough.
Between my nights I usually manage to sleep from about 8am-11am and then I hang around my bed reading or watching movies or just trying to rest. I try take an intentional "nap" (which usually just consists of shutting my eyes and unsuccessfully begging myself to fall asleep) in the afternoon sometime, maybe from 3-5ish.
That's the norm.
Today when I woke up I oddly felt rested. I thought "it must be at least 1pm!" and I was so excited. Actually as I walked to the kitchen to check out the time I was praying it was after 12pm. And it was!!! Imagine my shock and amazement when I glanced at the clock and saw that it was 4:15 pm!
4:15pm! I got 8 hours of sleep!!!!
Unheard of.
Friday, July 08, 2011
:)
Maelle took five steps for me today!!! She could have gone further, but I was so surprised she was actually walking that I didn't think to move further away. She was pretty cute. She was focused and paused to catch her balance after each step. Very deliberate.
I can officially say I was there when both my babies started walking. Five steps counts, right?
I can officially say I was there when both my babies started walking. Five steps counts, right?
{this moment}
{this moment} - A Friday Ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
Wishing you a wonderful weekend!
Wishing you a wonderful weekend!
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Tuesday, July 05, 2011
Beaches, Babes, and Bikes
I had a wonderful weekend with Sawyer's family. We ended up seeing each other every single day :) We had a beach day on Saturday -- my first beach day of the year! The first one in which I went into the water, at least. I have missed these days; summer days playing at the beach.
It will be especially fun this summer as the girls can actually play with me! I haven't really been into "tanning" the past couple years. I love the sun, but I would much rather play in it than just sit there -- though I do enjoy a good book at the beach. Also, I started wearing sunscreen four or five years ago (better late than never) though I never actually put it on my legs.
Back to the beach with Sawyer. We went to a little beach in Vernon that was, you know, the kind only locals know about. Those are my favourite kinds because, no offence to anyone who vacations in Kelowna, I hate tourists. This beach was a definite "family beach" and it had a much more relaxed feel than any of the main beaches near my house.
Sawyer kind of liked the water. It was pretty cold so she didn't like going past her knees. She loved the beach though -- both people watching and playing in the sand.
On Sunday we had a Service Worship day. I don't know if I've ever talked about it, but on the first Sunday of every month we don't have a worship service, we serve in the community instead. This week Mandi, Milena and I helped out in the community garden. Well, Mandi and Milena did. I ended up babysitting beside the garden, which worked well for me.
One of my favourite things about our church is the Service Worship. I enjoy serving in the community and chatting with people living around the church. And after service worship we always have lunch at the church. In the summer months this usually consists of a bbq outside -- the best!
After church I went on a bike ride with Kevin while Mandi and Sawyer napped. I haven't been on a motorcycle in years and it was so so so nice. I loved it and need to convince Kev to take me more often! There are so many lovely roads to bike on too. I love living in the okanagan.
And that was my weekend. Nice, eh?
It will be especially fun this summer as the girls can actually play with me! I haven't really been into "tanning" the past couple years. I love the sun, but I would much rather play in it than just sit there -- though I do enjoy a good book at the beach. Also, I started wearing sunscreen four or five years ago (better late than never) though I never actually put it on my legs.
| the most annoying little floating bathing suit thing. she hated it. |
Sawyer kind of liked the water. It was pretty cold so she didn't like going past her knees. She loved the beach though -- both people watching and playing in the sand.
On Sunday we had a Service Worship day. I don't know if I've ever talked about it, but on the first Sunday of every month we don't have a worship service, we serve in the community instead. This week Mandi, Milena and I helped out in the community garden. Well, Mandi and Milena did. I ended up babysitting beside the garden, which worked well for me.
One of my favourite things about our church is the Service Worship. I enjoy serving in the community and chatting with people living around the church. And after service worship we always have lunch at the church. In the summer months this usually consists of a bbq outside -- the best!
After church I went on a bike ride with Kevin while Mandi and Sawyer napped. I haven't been on a motorcycle in years and it was so so so nice. I loved it and need to convince Kev to take me more often! There are so many lovely roads to bike on too. I love living in the okanagan.
And that was my weekend. Nice, eh?
Monday, July 04, 2011
Broken Boat
Erik called today. Thankfully I was home -- though I sort of wish I wasn't because all he had was bad news for me. Well, he said he is healthy so that's good. The other good news is that there are plenty of openings right now and the fish are coming.
The bad news is that their boat is broken. The bad news is they aren't able to fish because of it. The bad news is they may not be able to fix their boat. The bad news is they are probably done for the season. And not to be materialistic or anything, but Erik goes to Alaska to make money and no fish = no money. The bad news is Erik is cold and hasn't seen the sun.
The good news is he may be coming home early.
Music Monday
Yo! It is July 4 AKA independence day. That's right, today is very special for Americans, its the day we celebrate because of our strong belief in good communication and non-violent confrontation.
Anyway; July 4 is also the traditional peak of the salmon run here on the Egegik river in Bristol Bay, Alaska. Bristol Bay can be very beautiful; when the sun is shining the water turns a shade of green that I have never seen anywhere else and it is mesmerizing. Mostly everything is brown up here; the tundra is brown, the bears are brown, the river that meets the ocean carries heavy loads of silt which makes the water close to shore brown, and the sand on the beach is brown.
Because I'm longing for a change of scenery right now this is Bonobo with Black Sands
7 more days and I will be in a real bed sleeping real sleep and dreaming dreams that don't have to do with me picking fish out of a net over and over again.
U-S-A, U-S-A, U-S-A!
EDO
Anyway; July 4 is also the traditional peak of the salmon run here on the Egegik river in Bristol Bay, Alaska. Bristol Bay can be very beautiful; when the sun is shining the water turns a shade of green that I have never seen anywhere else and it is mesmerizing. Mostly everything is brown up here; the tundra is brown, the bears are brown, the river that meets the ocean carries heavy loads of silt which makes the water close to shore brown, and the sand on the beach is brown.
Because I'm longing for a change of scenery right now this is Bonobo with Black Sands
7 more days and I will be in a real bed sleeping real sleep and dreaming dreams that don't have to do with me picking fish out of a net over and over again.
U-S-A, U-S-A, U-S-A!
EDO
Saturday, July 02, 2011
Jessica Hailley - the Graduate.
My niece, Jessica Hailley, graduated from high school yesterday. I wanted, more than anything, to be there to celebrate with her, but I had to miss it because of work.
When did my Little J blossom into this stunning young woman? She is absolutely breath-taking and so grown up. When did that happen?
I cried when I first saw these photos. If you know me, or any of the other Jansen women, you will know that this is typical -- we're an emotional bunch. I'm just so proud of Jessica and of thelittle girl young woman she is. She is absolutely gorgeous, but her physical beauty in no way compares to beautiful person she is. She is smart, caring, sensitive, thoughtful, enthusiastic, hardworking, gentle, fun, innocent and entirely delightful. She is helpful, gracious, forgiving, honest, supportive... need me to go on?
Jessica is a beautiful example of someone who acts her age. Do you know what I mean by this? She isn't trying to be older. She isn't in a hurry to grow up. She knows she's a kid (and I use this term loosely) and she enjoys that. She is perfectly content being who she is -- which shows maturity far beyond her years.
When I look at Jessica I see a strongyoung woman who is fiercely loyal and tenderly loving. I see a soft soul and a beloved friend.
Jessica is an open book. She's the type of person who waltzes into our house and tells it like it is. She's bold as brass and is never embarrassed or ashamed of who she is or what she thinks. She has always told me (and everyone) exactly what she thinks of boys, when she is struggling with friendships, when she had a rough day, when she needs some extra love, and when she is feeling fabulous. She doesn't just dump it all on you though, she is always ready to lend an ear when you need it. She loves sharing who she is and thinks it's perfectly normal to tell your aunts/uncles/family/friends everything. I love that about her. For example, she told all of us about her first kiss within 24 hours of it happening (two weeks ago :)). Yup, Little J has a boyfriend! That's enough to throw me into full-blown panic mode. She can't be old enough for that! But she is. And she is very level-headed about it all. She has asked me all sorts of relationship questions -- thoughtful ones too.
Next year Jessica will be going to school in Iowa. Dordt College, here she comes!! Two of my cousins will be attending Dordt next year so I'm sure they will all have fun together. Oh man, I just love her to pieces. I can't help it.
By the way, my Mom made her dress. Didn't she do a great job???
When did my Little J blossom into this stunning young woman? She is absolutely breath-taking and so grown up. When did that happen?
I cried when I first saw these photos. If you know me, or any of the other Jansen women, you will know that this is typical -- we're an emotional bunch. I'm just so proud of Jessica and of the
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| Jessica with my beautiful sister, Sharlene. |
When I look at Jessica I see a strong
Jessica is an open book. She's the type of person who waltzes into our house and tells it like it is. She's bold as brass and is never embarrassed or ashamed of who she is or what she thinks. She has always told me (and everyone) exactly what she thinks of boys, when she is struggling with friendships, when she had a rough day, when she needs some extra love, and when she is feeling fabulous. She doesn't just dump it all on you though, she is always ready to lend an ear when you need it. She loves sharing who she is and thinks it's perfectly normal to tell your aunts/uncles/family/friends everything. I love that about her. For example, she told all of us about her first kiss within 24 hours of it happening (two weeks ago :)). Yup, Little J has a boyfriend! That's enough to throw me into full-blown panic mode. She can't be old enough for that! But she is. And she is very level-headed about it all. She has asked me all sorts of relationship questions -- thoughtful ones too.
Next year Jessica will be going to school in Iowa. Dordt College, here she comes!! Two of my cousins will be attending Dordt next year so I'm sure they will all have fun together. Oh man, I just love her to pieces. I can't help it.
By the way, my Mom made her dress. Didn't she do a great job???
Friday, July 01, 2011
{this moment}
{this moment} - A Friday Ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
Wishing you a Canadian weekend!
Wishing you a Canadian weekend!
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Wednesday, June 29, 2011
life with sawyer
Warning: This is going to be way too long.
It has been almost three weeks since Sawyer stayed with us. I still miss having her -- she was delightful! It was especially enjoyable because she had just learned to walk. It was fun to watch her waddle around learning how to catch her balance. Her confidence grew with each passing day and she became increasingly daring.
Sawyer spent hours and hours in front of our front screen door waving at everyone and everything that went by. When she waves her hand goes in little circles and she will get both hands going when she is really excited. She would call out to people passing by when they didn't notice her waving, but it didn't seem to help. If we happened to be outside when a cat or a dog went by Sawy would toddle after it yelling. Sawyer loves animals... from a distance. Her confidence often wavered the closer she got to her prey (if she managed to get anywhere near them).
One of Sawyer's other favourite past-times was opening and closing doors. Our front door needs quite a bit of force to actually close so Sawyer could open it an almost close it over and over and over again. And that's exactly what she did. Open. Close. Screech. Repeat. She also enjoyed playing in the cupboards -- especially the tupperware cupboard.
Little Bean also became interested in putting rocks into jars, putting blocks into baskets, and putting her cheerios through whatever she could find. This came in handy when I was teaching her to clean up. We would make cleaning up into a game and she loved playing with me :)
Sawyer also loves being in the sling. We both loved it and we used it all the time. We used it when we went on walks, when Sawy was cranky and clingy, and anytime we were out of the house.
Sawyer also loved being outside -- she always has. She is always curious and loves pointing at thins and going "aAah" as though asking a question. She passes balls back and forth and does this adorable squeal and dance every time she pushes the ball in my direction.
I endearingly call her "Destructo-bean" or "Bean-zilla" because she loves knocking things over. Every time anything out of blocks she will come push it over and then step on it (and then cry because the blocks hurt her feet). The knocking down of towers often gets the best giggles out of her. She hands me blocks from the basket one at a time and then waits till I have a little tower before waltzing over and destroying it. What a punk.
She is such a little ham and loves making me laugh. If I laugh at something she does, she will do it over and over again. This is one of my favourite things.
Sawyer is so good at listening. She will stop what she is doing when I say "no thank you" and she quickly learned her boundaries in my home. She knew not to touch my computer, phone, or camera though everything else was pretty much fair game.
I also started putting her in a booster seat/high chair thingy every time she ate a meal. A meal-time routine actually helped more than I thought it would. I borrowed my sisters booster seat thing, but I think I am going to get one for myself. Sawy knew to walk to her chair if she wanted to eat. She would sign "all done" when she was finished eating and then she'd wait until I washed her hands and face before going and playing again. Speaking of eating... Sawyer eats a banana in less bites than I do. She pushes so much into her mouth that I am surprised she doesn't gag herself. She has to hold the piece she bit off with her little hand because her cheeks and lips can't close around it. I probably shouldn't let her because it is a bit of a choking hazard, but she has yet to choke and it is so dang cute!
The one thing that surprised me the most when she was over was how content she was playing on her own. I think it has something to do with her walking, but she would play alone for hours. At first I was a little bit sad that she didn't need me more, but really, who doesn't love an independent baby?? She come over for snuggles periodically throughout the day and that was more than enough for me.
Since she started walking she has changed the amount of enthusiasm she puts into "soooooo big". She now sticks out her belly and leans waaaay back when we are playing. It is absolutely adorable and makes me laugh out loud every single time. The first time I was a little nervous as she wavered a bit... while leaning backwards with only my hardwood floor to soften her fall... but she managed to stay upright. I also taught her to fly when she was here. I would say, "Sawyer can you fly??" and she would flap her arms up and down -- pretty cute.
She also started doing this... downward dog. How cute is that?
Sawybean, I loved having you. Even Uncle Erik enjoyed having you around. He would go into your room every morning for a snuggle before starting the day. You bring us both so much joy and you are welcome any time. Love you, baby girl.
**After looking at this post again I see that most of the pictures were taken from behind. I must have spent a lot of time running after Sawyer. I guess that's what happens when the little one learns to walk.
It has been almost three weeks since Sawyer stayed with us. I still miss having her -- she was delightful! It was especially enjoyable because she had just learned to walk. It was fun to watch her waddle around learning how to catch her balance. Her confidence grew with each passing day and she became increasingly daring.
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| who doesn't love a baby in a jean jacket? |
One of Sawyer's other favourite past-times was opening and closing doors. Our front door needs quite a bit of force to actually close so Sawyer could open it an almost close it over and over and over again. And that's exactly what she did. Open. Close. Screech. Repeat. She also enjoyed playing in the cupboards -- especially the tupperware cupboard.
Little Bean also became interested in putting rocks into jars, putting blocks into baskets, and putting her cheerios through whatever she could find. This came in handy when I was teaching her to clean up. We would make cleaning up into a game and she loved playing with me :)
Sawyer also loves being in the sling. We both loved it and we used it all the time. We used it when we went on walks, when Sawy was cranky and clingy, and anytime we were out of the house.
Sawyer also loved being outside -- she always has. She is always curious and loves pointing at thins and going "aAah" as though asking a question. She passes balls back and forth and does this adorable squeal and dance every time she pushes the ball in my direction.
I endearingly call her "Destructo-bean" or "Bean-zilla" because she loves knocking things over. Every time anything out of blocks she will come push it over and then step on it (and then cry because the blocks hurt her feet). The knocking down of towers often gets the best giggles out of her. She hands me blocks from the basket one at a time and then waits till I have a little tower before waltzing over and destroying it. What a punk.
She is such a little ham and loves making me laugh. If I laugh at something she does, she will do it over and over again. This is one of my favourite things.
Sawyer is so good at listening. She will stop what she is doing when I say "no thank you" and she quickly learned her boundaries in my home. She knew not to touch my computer, phone, or camera though everything else was pretty much fair game.
I also started putting her in a booster seat/high chair thingy every time she ate a meal. A meal-time routine actually helped more than I thought it would. I borrowed my sisters booster seat thing, but I think I am going to get one for myself. Sawy knew to walk to her chair if she wanted to eat. She would sign "all done" when she was finished eating and then she'd wait until I washed her hands and face before going and playing again. Speaking of eating... Sawyer eats a banana in less bites than I do. She pushes so much into her mouth that I am surprised she doesn't gag herself. She has to hold the piece she bit off with her little hand because her cheeks and lips can't close around it. I probably shouldn't let her because it is a bit of a choking hazard, but she has yet to choke and it is so dang cute!
The one thing that surprised me the most when she was over was how content she was playing on her own. I think it has something to do with her walking, but she would play alone for hours. At first I was a little bit sad that she didn't need me more, but really, who doesn't love an independent baby?? She come over for snuggles periodically throughout the day and that was more than enough for me.
Since she started walking she has changed the amount of enthusiasm she puts into "soooooo big". She now sticks out her belly and leans waaaay back when we are playing. It is absolutely adorable and makes me laugh out loud every single time. The first time I was a little nervous as she wavered a bit... while leaning backwards with only my hardwood floor to soften her fall... but she managed to stay upright. I also taught her to fly when she was here. I would say, "Sawyer can you fly??" and she would flap her arms up and down -- pretty cute.
She also started doing this... downward dog. How cute is that?
Sawybean, I loved having you. Even Uncle Erik enjoyed having you around. He would go into your room every morning for a snuggle before starting the day. You bring us both so much joy and you are welcome any time. Love you, baby girl.
**After looking at this post again I see that most of the pictures were taken from behind. I must have spent a lot of time running after Sawyer. I guess that's what happens when the little one learns to walk.
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Monday, June 27, 2011
Music Monday
Hello again. It is now June 27 and it is time for another Music Monday!
Today I would like to speak a little bit about dissonance. If there is one trait to the music that I really like it is dissonance.
I also picked this particular song because I am hoping to be working so hard that the blood is literally flowing through my fingers, either keeping them warm on cold days or because the netting has rubbed the skin off (which happens to us on big years)
I would also like to comment on the video that comes with this music. I really enjoy this video, it makes me want to watch all these silent horror films. Some of the shots and scenes send chills down my spine and they were filmed 70+ years ago. Amazing.
A tip of my invisible hat to whoever put that video together.
Here's to another beautiful day on Bristol Bay.
EDO
Today I would like to speak a little bit about dissonance. If there is one trait to the music that I really like it is dissonance.
–noun
1. inharmonious or harsh sound; discord; cacophony.
My favorite band, Radiohead, are masters of dissonance which makes much of their music unplayable on radio. You just can't bust a comfortable move to Radiohead. Likewise with another of my favorites, Sufjan Stevens. This song will make you feel uncomfortable. Listen for the harp to come in, it makes everything feel better and is stunningly beautiful to hear. This is why I love dissonance so much because the ugliness and uncomfortable nature of it highlights the beauty of a consonant chord. This contrast is a wonderful thing.
2. Music . a. a simultaneous combination of tones conventionally accepted as being in a state of unrest and needing completion.
b. an unresolved, discordant chord or interval.
3. disagreement or incongruity.
My favorite band, Radiohead, are masters of dissonance which makes much of their music unplayable on radio. You just can't bust a comfortable move to Radiohead. Likewise with another of my favorites, Sufjan Stevens. This song will make you feel uncomfortable. Listen for the harp to come in, it makes everything feel better and is stunningly beautiful to hear. This is why I love dissonance so much because the ugliness and uncomfortable nature of it highlights the beauty of a consonant chord. This contrast is a wonderful thing.
This is Sufjan Steven's cover of You Are the Blood
I also picked this particular song because I am hoping to be working so hard that the blood is literally flowing through my fingers, either keeping them warm on cold days or because the netting has rubbed the skin off (which happens to us on big years)
I would also like to comment on the video that comes with this music. I really enjoy this video, it makes me want to watch all these silent horror films. Some of the shots and scenes send chills down my spine and they were filmed 70+ years ago. Amazing.
A tip of my invisible hat to whoever put that video together.
Here's to another beautiful day on Bristol Bay.
EDO
Friday, June 24, 2011
Canada Culture Shock
** I just found this post. I wrote it... months ago, but never posted it for some reason. I didn't have any culture shock when I came home, but I did have an awareness of the many differences between Canada and Ghana. **
Being back in Canada is strange. In some ways it feels like I have never left - I have fallen right back into my routine. In other ways I see how vastly different Canada is from Ghana. Things start seeming normal when you are in another country for so long and you forget that things are different at home.
For example:
Being back in Canada is strange. In some ways it feels like I have never left - I have fallen right back into my routine. In other ways I see how vastly different Canada is from Ghana. Things start seeming normal when you are in another country for so long and you forget that things are different at home.
For example:
- I don't need to throw my toilet paper in the garbage - I now get to flush it.
- People obey traffic lights.
- Motorcyclists wear helmets.
- Babies aren't tied to their mama's backs on motorcycles.
- Motorcycles have only 1 or 2 people on them (instead of 1-7... true story).
- People seem unfriendly. No one says hello when you walk down the street.
- Everyone is in a hurry.
- There are no children running down the street.
- There are no children outside.
- People go to work without their children.
- Nobody recognizes me.
- I haven't been proposed to lately.
- No one randomly touches my skin.
- I haven't terrified any children due to the colour of my skin.
- Everyone tries to look the same -- they wear the same colours, shop at the same stores, and have similar styles.
- You can buy everything at one store.
- You can't buy things through your car window while you're driving around.
- There's no honking!
- When there happens to be honking it is because someone is angry -- not just friendly communication.
- I sleep with blankets on because it is so cold at night.
- The power is reliable!
- It stays on at night so I go to bed later.
- Drivers use their turn signals.
- Only two cars drive side by side on two lane roads.
- There is a limit to the number of people you can have in a vehicle.
- I haven't seen any goats tied to the roof of a bus.
- People say please and thank you.
- People don't squeeze (and I do mean squeeze) between each other -- there is such a hing as personal space.
- Babies are strapped in car seats -- waste of space in a taxi!
- No goats or chickes around.
- I can go to dinner with a friend without paying for them.
- There is pavement everywhere!
- I haven't tripped over an open sewer system yet today.
- You can buy everything you need in one store.
- Taxi prices are based on time spent in the taxi -- not up for negotiation based on the colour of your skin.
- I can't barter for my food.
- I can drink from my tap.
- I can have warm showers -- I want to have warm showers.
- I feel clean.
- Cheese is refrigerated.
- People actually have heaters in their homes.
- I haven't seen any three-year-olds with their younger siblings tied to their backs.
- I don't have to worry about getting Malaria.
- Everything is open on Sunday.
- Nurses care for their patients.
- I haven't seen any patients hit or laughed at.
- There is no dancing in the streets.
- There is no dancing, period.
- Men and women hold hands.
- Everyone has electricity and a TV.
- Hardly anyone lives where they work.
- Children go to daycare and have babysitters.
- Music in stores is played quietly so you can hardly hear it.
- Nobody follows me down the street (and if they did I'd be worried!)
- No one (aside from Erik) has proclaimed their love for me recently.
- Fruits and vegetables are eaten cold.
- Almost all children attend school.
- there is a lack of colourful clothing.
- There isn't as much smog -- I can actually see the blue sky.
- You can get exact change at stores.
- I don't have to pay to use public washrooms.
- I can find public washrooms.
- I don't have to squat and suspend myself above a tiny hole to void.
- International calls are so expensive.
- There is high speed internet everywhere.
- People hardly walk anywhere.
- Most vehicles have air conditioning.
- I haven't held a stranger's baby yet today.
- I don't have to wash my clothes by hand.
- I am not sticky 24 hours a day.
- People here have more than enough of everything
- People whine and complain more.
- People are less forward.
- All stores are in buildings.
- There is no music in the streets.
- No one has asked me for my water.
- No one has asked me for anything -- money, my purse, my sunglasses, my empty water bottle.
- There is no dirt under my fingernails.
- There's no need to keep the bucket in the bathroom filled with water because water doesn't shut off and I can always flush my toilet.
- There are glass panes on the windows.
- People are on time for things.
- I pay the same price as everyone else.
- I haven't made a baby cry because of the colour of my skin.
- Nobody wears/carries things on their heads.
- People in the service industry actually aim to please.
- You have to tip after paying for a meal at a restaurant (and tax isn't included in the menu prices!)
- Meat is refrigerated here.
- I haven't been able to find any dog meat to purchase on the street.
- Cows are fat.
- Nobody does 'real' manual labour -- even the labourers have the help of some pretty incredible tools.
- Hardly any women deliver babies at home.
- There are cars for sale everywhere!
- I do not have an entourage of children.
- Nobody waves at me.
- Nobody stops and stares at me.
- I don't feel the need to drink 4-6L of water a day, though it's probably still a good idea.
- I have more than enough clothing.
- I don't have to hang my clothes in my bedroom to dry.
- My feet are clan.
- Women cover up when they breastfeed.
- Babies wear diapers.
- There is an actual garbage disposal system.
- There are garbage cans everywhere that are emptied regularly.
- Coke comes in a can.
- Children don't go anywhere unattended and a 3 year old sister does not count as an attendant.
- Everyone wears shoes or sandals.
- It is so green!
- I don't have to carry my water bottle with me wherever I go.
- Pedestrians use cross walks and have the right of way.
- You can control the temperature of the shower -- you want to control the temperature.
- My toes are not swollen sausages.
- Walls in rooms are actually washed and appear clean.
{this moment}
{this moment} - A Friday Ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
Wishing you a relaxing weekend!
Wishing you a relaxing weekend!
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Thursday, June 23, 2011
rain
Know what I woke up to this morning?
Rain.
I heard it even before my alarm.
And when my alarm went off it was still raining.
Pouring actually.
I poked my head out the window to assess the amount of rain and decided it was enough to water my garden for me.
Thank you, rain.
It was also enough to water my sister's garden for me.
Thanks again.
So I reset my alarm for an hour later and snuggled in under my duvet to enjoy the sound of the rain hitting my roof. I savored the delicious smell of earthy wetness. And I drifted off into semi-consciousness -- the best!
Now I am reading my book (for pleasure rather than studying!), drinking my 'feel relaxed' loose leaf tea, and feeling very relaxed.
It's my last day of hospital orientation today. We get to start late because it's only four hours instead of eight. My first shift on the ward (with a buddy nurse) is Monday.
Mmmm. I'm loving the rain.
Rain.
I heard it even before my alarm.
And when my alarm went off it was still raining.
Pouring actually.
I poked my head out the window to assess the amount of rain and decided it was enough to water my garden for me.
Thank you, rain.
It was also enough to water my sister's garden for me.
Thanks again.
So I reset my alarm for an hour later and snuggled in under my duvet to enjoy the sound of the rain hitting my roof. I savored the delicious smell of earthy wetness. And I drifted off into semi-consciousness -- the best!
Now I am reading my book (for pleasure rather than studying!), drinking my 'feel relaxed' loose leaf tea, and feeling very relaxed.
It's my last day of hospital orientation today. We get to start late because it's only four hours instead of eight. My first shift on the ward (with a buddy nurse) is Monday.
Mmmm. I'm loving the rain.
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
It's Time
Dearest Erik,
Please come home.
I miss you.
A lot.
I hope you are warm.
And happy.
And a little bit sleep deprived d/t the incredible amount of fish you are catching.
But mostly warm and happy.
Ok. And well rested.
I love you.
With all my heart.
Ashley Joy
ps. I miss your sexy beard and high pony.
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Chicken and Coconut Thai Curry Soup
Yummy! Yumm. Eeeeee. Yummy! I made this delicious soup a couple weeks ago - before Erik left - and I forgot to share the recipe!! I copied it off the internet somewhere, but I can't seem to find the website anymore. I made some minor adjustments to the recipe, but I can no longer remember what they were... I'm sure the original is delicious as well. I was a little intimidated at the thought of attempting this soup, but I soon realized just how simple it is. And it is so tasty.
Chicken and Coconut Thai Curry Soup
2 teaspoons of vegetable oil
1 tablespoon of Thai red curry paste
4 cups of chicken stock
1 14 oz can of coconut milk
1 piece of ginger, peeled, about 2 inches
2 pieces of boneless, skinless chicken meat of your choice: breasts or thighs
2 teaspoon of brown sugar
2 tablespoons of fresh lime juice
1 tablespoon of fish sauce
Chopped vegetables such as carrots, broccoli and celery
2 tablespoons of chopped fresh cilantro
Heat oil in a large pot over medium-high heat.
Add the curry paste and cook quickly for about 30 seconds without burning it.
Add the stock, coconut milk and ginger and bring it to a boil.
Add the chicken, cover and reduce heat to medium-low.
Cook until chicken is cooked through, about 15 minutes.
Add the sugar, lime juice, fish sauce and vegetables. Turn heat up and cook until vegetables are just cooked but still crunchy, about 5 minutes.
Top each soup bowl with cilantro and serve with rice.
Chicken and Coconut Thai Curry Soup
2 teaspoons of vegetable oil
1 tablespoon of Thai red curry paste
4 cups of chicken stock
1 14 oz can of coconut milk
1 piece of ginger, peeled, about 2 inches
2 pieces of boneless, skinless chicken meat of your choice: breasts or thighs
2 teaspoon of brown sugar
2 tablespoons of fresh lime juice
1 tablespoon of fish sauce
Chopped vegetables such as carrots, broccoli and celery
2 tablespoons of chopped fresh cilantro
Heat oil in a large pot over medium-high heat.
Add the curry paste and cook quickly for about 30 seconds without burning it.
Add the stock, coconut milk and ginger and bring it to a boil.
Add the chicken, cover and reduce heat to medium-low.
Cook until chicken is cooked through, about 15 minutes.
Add the sugar, lime juice, fish sauce and vegetables. Turn heat up and cook until vegetables are just cooked but still crunchy, about 5 minutes.
Top each soup bowl with cilantro and serve with rice.
Monday, June 20, 2011
Music Monday
Hello everyone. By the time you read this I will have been in Alaska for 2 days already. Only 20 left but who's counting.
The selection for this week comes from a local Vancouver band. I have been very impressed with this group through everything that I've heard so far. I was able to see them live in Vancouver in March of this year and it was the best free show I've ever been to. Actually it was one of the better shows I've been to; their presence on stage was very intriguing and they sounded just as good live.
I must admit that I chose this particular song because of the music video more than anything else. It is heavy on the floating images which is similar to what I'm up here doing. Unlike this video I am not floating aimlessly in the ocean and I am not sinking because of how much extra weight I'm bringing on board (although it would be nice to have that issue due to extra fish we're bringing on board).
This is Brasstronaut with Old World Lies
If you like this song check out more from them.
Keep the fish floppin' and the beats hoppin'
SockeyEO
The selection for this week comes from a local Vancouver band. I have been very impressed with this group through everything that I've heard so far. I was able to see them live in Vancouver in March of this year and it was the best free show I've ever been to. Actually it was one of the better shows I've been to; their presence on stage was very intriguing and they sounded just as good live.
I must admit that I chose this particular song because of the music video more than anything else. It is heavy on the floating images which is similar to what I'm up here doing. Unlike this video I am not floating aimlessly in the ocean and I am not sinking because of how much extra weight I'm bringing on board (although it would be nice to have that issue due to extra fish we're bringing on board).
This is Brasstronaut with Old World Lies
If you like this song check out more from them.
Keep the fish floppin' and the beats hoppin'
SockeyEO
Sunday, June 19, 2011
My Littlest Outside Baby
It was Hailey's first birthday yesterday. Happy Birthday, baby girl! You have the brightest, most beautiful eyes and an absolutely delightful personality.
She started out small at 6lb 3oz and she is still itty bitty -- in the 3rd percentile. At something like 17lb she is definitely my littlest baby. My littlest outside baby at least. My BIL now calls her the "outside baby" so she won't be confused with the "inside baby".
You see, Hailey is going to be a big sister in December. And we are going to have another niece or nephew to love and adore. I can't wait!
She started out small at 6lb 3oz and she is still itty bitty -- in the 3rd percentile. At something like 17lb she is definitely my littlest baby. My littlest outside baby at least. My BIL now calls her the "outside baby" so she won't be confused with the "inside baby".
You see, Hailey is going to be a big sister in December. And we are going to have another niece or nephew to love and adore. I can't wait!
Bachelor of Science in Nursing
Yup, I said it. And I have one, a bachelor of science in nursing. I finally graduated last week after six short years of university. I almost can't believe it. It hasn't really sunk in yet that I won't be returning to school in the fall, but I'm sure it will eventually. I don't think I am done with school just yet, but I will be taking a bit of time to actually start my career.
Speaking of career... I was thankfully hired on a surgical floor at the hospital here in town. I was hired as a casual and I have been warned that I won't get many shifts, but work is work. At least I got in! The floor I am hired on has patients recovering from general surgeries (bowel resections, amputations, vascular surgeries, etc).
How do I feel about it? Excited, nervous, anxious, apprehensive... many things. I am excited to start because I know I would feel this way no matter what and the sooner I get in and get comfortable the better. The only thing that will make me feel better/less stressed will be experience... and I have to face my fears to get that.
So tomorrow I start. It's just hospital orientation so I won't actually be working, but I get paid to sit there for three and a half days! I'm not complaining! After that I get 10-12 shifts with a nurse (I think)... and then I'm on my own. On my own. I no longer get to chart "RN aware" because am the RN. It will be a huge adjustment, but it will be a good one. Everybody's nervous for their first day of work, right?
Speaking of career... I was thankfully hired on a surgical floor at the hospital here in town. I was hired as a casual and I have been warned that I won't get many shifts, but work is work. At least I got in! The floor I am hired on has patients recovering from general surgeries (bowel resections, amputations, vascular surgeries, etc).
How do I feel about it? Excited, nervous, anxious, apprehensive... many things. I am excited to start because I know I would feel this way no matter what and the sooner I get in and get comfortable the better. The only thing that will make me feel better/less stressed will be experience... and I have to face my fears to get that.
So tomorrow I start. It's just hospital orientation so I won't actually be working, but I get paid to sit there for three and a half days! I'm not complaining! After that I get 10-12 shifts with a nurse (I think)... and then I'm on my own. On my own. I no longer get to chart "RN aware" because am the RN. It will be a huge adjustment, but it will be a good one. Everybody's nervous for their first day of work, right?
Friday, June 17, 2011
{this moment}
{this moment} - A Friday Ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
Wishing you a fabulous weekend!
Wishing you a fabulous weekend!
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Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Auntie of the Year
Erik and I loved having Sawyer for the week. Who doesn't love having a little friend around 24 hours a day? We had an accident-free week until three hours before Bean's parents came to pick her up. I was pretty impressed considering she was just one week into walking... I thought we got through the week just fine when Sawy fell forehead first into my tile floor. Wooops! Her upper body started going faster than her little legs could keep up with so she lost her balance... poor little Bean.
She screamed for a bit, struggled when I put ice on her forehead, snuggled for a long while and then was off toddling around again. She looked a little bit like a unicorn for a while, but she's fine.
She screamed for a bit, struggled when I put ice on her forehead, snuggled for a long while and then was off toddling around again. She looked a little bit like a unicorn for a while, but she's fine.
I saw Sawy yesterday and her injury is almost gone -- babies thankfully heal so quickly. Man, I have missed having her around. She is the very best.
Monday, June 13, 2011
Music Monday
Down with the Bruins! At least Thornton, that guy has earned my ire. If you feel the same way you earn 10 points for a Sedin of your choosing.
I do believe it is time for another music Monday. I've got a fantastic song for you today from a very talented band from, where else, England! I think you'll enjoy it; this is Tunng with "Bullets"
I hope you enjoy.
Tomorrow is my last day of work for 1 month and 4 days. It also marks the 3rd month this year that Ashley and I have been apart.
Good luck to Vancouver and fans; I hope that you will finally meet Stanley on Wednesday.
Until next time...
EDO
I do believe it is time for another music Monday. I've got a fantastic song for you today from a very talented band from, where else, England! I think you'll enjoy it; this is Tunng with "Bullets"
I hope you enjoy.
Tomorrow is my last day of work for 1 month and 4 days. It also marks the 3rd month this year that Ashley and I have been apart.
Good luck to Vancouver and fans; I hope that you will finally meet Stanley on Wednesday.
Until next time...
EDO
Friday, June 10, 2011
{this moment}
{this moment} - A Friday Ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
Wishing you a lovely weekend!
Wishing you a lovely weekend!
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Thursday, June 09, 2011
To commemorate
In honour of the four years I spent doing my undergrad I have decided to reveal a project I took part in creating in my first year of nursing. It's far enough in the past that I find it more humorous than embarrassing -- though it is undeniably embarrassing.
Wednesday, June 08, 2011
'Mom' for a week.
I have been playing 'mom' for the week. Sawyer's parents went to California so she has been staying with us. We've had her since Thursday and we have her until Friday! Her grandparents graciously took her for Saturday and Sunday as it would otherwise be a little too much for my dear husband. I love having her around constantly and I love her new-found independence with walking! It's lovely to have her roam around and get what she wants rather than crying and pointing while I try decipher exactly what she needs.
I love having her for multiple days too. It's much much easier because we have gotten into a rhythm. It's given Sawy a chance to get to know me -- to really get to know me. She knows what she can expect from me and she is learning what she can and can't get into. I've also had the opportunity to get to know her better as well. I know how she has been sleeping and what her limits for the day are. I can make her skip a nap because I deal with the consequences... not her mama. And she has been a peach! Truly. We make a good team.
I have also loved having the sling! Sawyer always gets a little bit cranky around supper and I had been putting up with it while I worked around the kitchen. Then I remembered the sling!! My SIL uses it for everything, but I had only been using it out of the house when we go on walks or when we shop. Two days ago I had an epiphany and I slung her up when I was making dinner and she was more than content to snuggle close and watch me work. Duh! It has been a lifesaver! Or at least a sanity saver.
I love having her for multiple days too. It's much much easier because we have gotten into a rhythm. It's given Sawy a chance to get to know me -- to really get to know me. She knows what she can expect from me and she is learning what she can and can't get into. I've also had the opportunity to get to know her better as well. I know how she has been sleeping and what her limits for the day are. I can make her skip a nap because I deal with the consequences... not her mama. And she has been a peach! Truly. We make a good team.
I have also loved having the sling! Sawyer always gets a little bit cranky around supper and I had been putting up with it while I worked around the kitchen. Then I remembered the sling!! My SIL uses it for everything, but I had only been using it out of the house when we go on walks or when we shop. Two days ago I had an epiphany and I slung her up when I was making dinner and she was more than content to snuggle close and watch me work. Duh! It has been a lifesaver! Or at least a sanity saver.
Tuesday, June 07, 2011
Sunday Afternoon Kayaking.
We went kayaking on Sunday afternoon.
The weather was absolutely perfect -- there was a slight breeze to keep us a little bit cool.
Erik may or may not have flipped his kayak. He was thankful that the lake is only 3.5 feet deep even 100 meters from the shore.
He still had trouble getting back into his kayak. It took a couple attempts and the kayak filled with water and almost sunk!
I am so glad it's summer and that we get to do this a lot more often!
Long Lost Friend
This weekend I had a visit with a long lost friend. Pam spontaneously decided to come visit me for the weekend and it was wonderful! The weather was gorgeous and the Canucks won game 2. What more could we ask for??
We took the kids to the big "pool" so we could go "swimming"... The freezing water never really made it past our ankles... though Lyra did sit in the water for a millisecond before a "wave" came along and she realized it wasn't the best idea.
It was so good to see Pam! It has been far too long (about three years). It was fun to catch up and to see her in her role as a mom. It wasn't even strange to see her with kids of her own... she's an awesome mom and she clearly enjoys it! And her kids clearly adore her.
The water was seriously freezing! Just having my feet in was more than enough to cool me down. Lyra kept us entertained with her many silly faces. She is quite the little character. Look at her below on the horse at the playground... too funny! She went wild!
I was so excited when Pam asked if she could come for a quick visit! I can't think of a better way to spend the weekend. Three years is far too long. I'm so glad we're in our new place too because it is much more conducive to having friends over... and it's just way nicer. Thanks for coming Pam and you are always welcome.
And that goes for all of you. Come for a visit!!! You are always welcome.
We took the kids to the big "pool" so we could go "swimming"... The freezing water never really made it past our ankles... though Lyra did sit in the water for a millisecond before a "wave" came along and she realized it wasn't the best idea.
It was so good to see Pam! It has been far too long (about three years). It was fun to catch up and to see her in her role as a mom. It wasn't even strange to see her with kids of her own... she's an awesome mom and she clearly enjoys it! And her kids clearly adore her.
The water was seriously freezing! Just having my feet in was more than enough to cool me down. Lyra kept us entertained with her many silly faces. She is quite the little character. Look at her below on the horse at the playground... too funny! She went wild!
I was so excited when Pam asked if she could come for a quick visit! I can't think of a better way to spend the weekend. Three years is far too long. I'm so glad we're in our new place too because it is much more conducive to having friends over... and it's just way nicer. Thanks for coming Pam and you are always welcome.
And that goes for all of you. Come for a visit!!! You are always welcome.
Monday, June 06, 2011
Music Monday
I forgot to answer my question the other week. I awarded 66 points because there have been 66 monarchs since England had Monarchs. Since no one guessed at the number 66 I will be keeping the points myself and I will be donating them to a charity of my choice. For your information I chose "The committee for the liberation and integration of terrifying organisms and their rehabilitation into society."
For those of you who instantly laughed at my choice of charitable organizations because you get the reference you just won 60 times 6 points to donate to your choice of fictional charities.
Its getting hot in Kelowna. I think that our lovely little house will be roasting hot in another couple weeks. Good thing I will be in Alaska freezing in the Bering wind. I leave next week. There may not be music Mondays for a while, or maybe I'll find a way to get them done even though I'm gone...
Its been 28 degrees here for the past week. That's warm. Growing up in Washington State that temperature was only achieved in the middle of summer. To anyone who thinks in Fahrenheit (28cx2)+30 = 86f. That is roughly it. The true amount is 82.4 degrees Fahrenheit. That's hot.
You know what else is hot? Fire. This is Fire of Birds by DM Stith.
DM Stith is part of Sufjan Stevens' ensemble of musicians. He is quite unique in his music which I find refreshing. This song took me a couple of times to listen to before I realized that I liked it. Actually it wasn't until I found myself walking home from work and semi dancing down the street to the chorus that I realized I liked it.
Big week this week, Ashley will probably tell you all about it.
Hold on to your butts,
E
D
O
For those of you who instantly laughed at my choice of charitable organizations because you get the reference you just won 60 times 6 points to donate to your choice of fictional charities.
Its getting hot in Kelowna. I think that our lovely little house will be roasting hot in another couple weeks. Good thing I will be in Alaska freezing in the Bering wind. I leave next week. There may not be music Mondays for a while, or maybe I'll find a way to get them done even though I'm gone...
Its been 28 degrees here for the past week. That's warm. Growing up in Washington State that temperature was only achieved in the middle of summer. To anyone who thinks in Fahrenheit (28cx2)+30 = 86f. That is roughly it. The true amount is 82.4 degrees Fahrenheit. That's hot.
You know what else is hot? Fire. This is Fire of Birds by DM Stith.
DM Stith is part of Sufjan Stevens' ensemble of musicians. He is quite unique in his music which I find refreshing. This song took me a couple of times to listen to before I realized that I liked it. Actually it wasn't until I found myself walking home from work and semi dancing down the street to the chorus that I realized I liked it.
Big week this week, Ashley will probably tell you all about it.
Hold on to your butts,
E
D
O
Friday, June 03, 2011
{this moment}
{this moment} - A Friday Ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
Wishing you a lovely weekend!
Wishing you a lovely weekend!
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Wednesday, June 01, 2011
This is it.
What could three brand new, freshly sharpened pencils and a never-been-used eraser mean?
It's time to write my Canadian Registered Nurse Exam. I am hoping this morning is anti-climactic and that I walk out confident I passed. After almost failing two practice exams yesterday afternoon, I'm not so sure! But hey, I only almost failed. That means I passed. And in an exam that is pass/fail, passing is all that matters.
This is it.
It's time to write my Canadian Registered Nurse Exam. I am hoping this morning is anti-climactic and that I walk out confident I passed. After almost failing two practice exams yesterday afternoon, I'm not so sure! But hey, I only almost failed. That means I passed. And in an exam that is pass/fail, passing is all that matters.
This is it.
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