Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Wrestling

Erik and I had an impromptu trip to the lower mainland for a wrestling tournament that he participated in. We heard about it on Friday night and drove down on Friday for the "weigh in" and a practice. Then Erik had some matches on Saturday morning. He hasn't wrestled competitively since high school and is quite out of shape. He did well though. Won the first match by pinning the guy in the first round. I was impressed! More to come later.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

My Shoes

Erik hates my shoes. When I say "hate" I mean he loathes them. He is always asking me to buy new ones. I admit, my shoes aren't too pretty, but who cares? The ones I have function quite well.

First, there's this little number. These are old faithful. Lindsey gave them to me just before I graduated from high school after she'd warn them for a couple years. They are my everyday shoes. Nothing special, but well loved. Mom got me this next pair from the dollar store three years ago. I LOVE them! Yes, they are bright yellow and hideous, but they are COMFORTABLE! I worked at MCC Thrift store two summers ago and if I wasn't wearing these babies I would come home with sore feet, knees and back. They are wonderful! I do wear them more often then I should, but they work in all environments! They are great for running errands, or running out of the house when you are going to miss your bus, or even just for a nice walk around the neighborhood.Speaking of the thrift store. I pick up these next two pairs while I worked there. I don't know why Erik doesn't like either of them. I thought he would love the red ones because they're his favorite color. Oh well, my brother-in-law likes them so that's good enough for me (this is the same BIL who told me I should go shopping for jeans with my sister because mine don't quite fit).Come on Erik! These are Hi-Tec!!! And they say SQUASH!!! It doesn't get better than this.These next two are the main culprits. Erik would love to see them burned. He would burn them too if he knew I wouldn't flip. He has dubbed this first pair "The Torpedoes". I understand they are hideous, but I got them for $2 when I was in Grand Cache once in high school and they still function rather well. I wear them to the hospital. I don't want nice shoes for that. They are strictly for clinical, but he doesn't even like seeing them in our closet.And these beauties are lovingly called "the Belugas". Erik even has sound effects for them when I wear them. And then we do the beluga foot dance... which is rather embarrassing when I think about it. They are so nice and easy to slip into. They also date back to high school, but I find them tolerable. They're ROXY! Doesn't that make me hip? They are undoubtedly comfortable. I think they will turn into hospital shoes when I lay the torpedoes to rest. I'll have to tie them up properly though.But this pair... Erik loves the Dexters. They are his favorite. Notice that they are size 7... I'm size 8-8.5. I saw them when I worked at MCC as well and I could not pass them up. Who doesn't want bowling shoes. They are not comfortable, but they actually fit quite tolerably. I can wear them all day long without complaining so they can't be that small (unlike the cleats I once wore for ultimate Frisbee that left all my toes bruised... those were terrible).This is my lovely shoe repertoire. I'm not planning on making any changes, much to Erik's dismay. I can't wait till I can wear flip flips all summer long so we can avoid this whole argument.

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Writing Week

Well I am half-way through reading week and only half-way through the paper I have been trying to write. That's just the first draft. I still have the endless amount of editing to do! I hate needing to be productive on reading week, but every year I have exams or papers due the following week (except when I went to CBC... which is why CBC is the best). I have worked on this stinkin paper every day and have been making minimal progress each day. This could be due to the fact that:

a. It's reading week and I want to go play
b. I am awful at articulating myself in writing
c. I just don't want to do it

It really is a painful process, but I am persevering... and so is Erik. Let me tell you, it's probably just as painful for him.

In other news: we got free tickets to the Rockets game tonight. So that's where we are heading after dinner. Haystacks. Mmmm.

Monday, February 16, 2009

You Keep Us

You keep us waiting,
You, the God of all time,
want us to wait for the right time in which to discover
who we are, where we must go,
who will be with us, and what we must do,
So thank you... for the waiting time.

You keep us looking,
You, the God of all space,
want us to look in the right and wrong places
for signs of hope,
for people who are hopeless,
for visions of a beeter world that will appear
among the disappointments of the world we know,
So thank you... for the looking time.

You keep us loving,
You, the God whose name is love,
want us to be like you -
to love the loveless and the unlovely and the unloveable;
to love without jealousy or design or threat;
and most difficult of all, to love ourselves.
So thank you... for the loving time.

And in all this you keep us,
through hard questions with no easy answers;
through failing where we hoped to succeed
and making an impact when we felt we were useless;
through the patience and the dreams and the love of others;
and through Jesus Christ and his Spirit,
you keep us.
So thank you... for the keeping time,
and for now, and for ever. Amen.


Iona Community, Scotland

A Home

Lately I have been craving a home. I mean I have a place to live, but I want a home. I haven't felt at home since before I left for college; I have felt like a transient the four years since. I miss the enveloping peace that comes from feeling at home. The comfort that drains you of energy, but makes you blissfully happy.

My dream home:
- a couple acres
- little fixer-upper house
- couple cows, chickens, goats
- a relatively large garden
- a wood fireplace

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Weather

I hate the winter weather in Kelowna. I love the spring, summer and fall, but the winter is just dreadful. It's just blah. It will snow a little here and there, but nothing substantial. Then it will stay foggy for a couple weeks. Then maybe snow a little more. Then be just freezing, then sunny and warm and then snow again... but not enough to go out and play in.

I miss the rain.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Some of the fam

I have been meaning to post these since Christmas. I know that was almost two months ago, but I just love some of these.
This is Jon after digging Zachary's truck out of the snow.
Christopher made a Christmas card for his parents. Cute.
The boys while we were snowboarding behind the truck. I use the term "we" loosely, I didn't even make an attempt.
Leah Joy and me at a family shindig.
Christopher proud of his loose tooth.
Mom and Erik.
Some of the cousins with Oma and Opa. We went out for breakfast on boxing day.
Mom and Auntie Ange.
Sharlene and Courtney.
Jon took a picture of himself.
Christopher showing us his flexibility.
Laughing during one of the many games we played.
Erik almost looks like he's crying, but I assure you he was giggling.
My nieces (Kaitlyn and Jessica) and cousins (Dineke and Sarah).

Thursday, February 12, 2009

the SILs

I acquired two sister-in-laws when I married Erik. I think they are both nuts... but I love them dearly. I found this gem on my computer just today. What beauties.

Saturday, February 07, 2009

Car Troubles

Our car wouldn't start last night. We had it towed to the dealership today (thank you BCAA). It's going to cost upwards of $1000 to fix.

Shit.

Thursday, February 05, 2009

Random Things About Me.

*Warning: Long Post

I am inspired by Facebook, but don't have the heart to write this on there. I will not conform!!! Erik, must be rubbing off on me. It was kind of fun to think of things about myself. I have been leaving random notes around the house so that I had enough to write here... but I ended up with way more than the allotted 25. The beautiful thing is, this isn't Facebook. There are no rules. And I can have as many as I want.

1. I love lists. I sometimes make them just so I can cross things off. It makes me feel productive and motivates me to do more.

2. I hate cotton balls. Even thinking about them makes me shiver. I would dread Sunday School when we had to make sheep out of cotton balls. They made us pull them apart and spread them out. I still have nightmares.

3. I am jealous of anyone who travels. Genuinely jealous. I sometimes get mad about it. I guess that makes Lynn my worst enemy. I need to get out there.

4. I am really quite selfish when it comes to food. I will let Erik share off my plate, but I will get upset if he takes the "best" piece. I always save the best bite for last!

5. I love to read, but wish I could do it more. I miss reading for pleasure. I read 9 novels in 2 weeks over Christmas holidays and it was DELIGHTFUL.

6. When I am reading a great book, nothing else matters. Nothing.

7. I am obsessed with photography. OBSESSED! Ask Erik. Ask anyone. I would love to be a GREAT photographer. It is one of my goals. I would love to document everything in photos. If I don't have pictures of something it's like it never happened. I am most interested in taking pictures of life. Just life. Mainly strangers... but I don't because I feel... rude? I'm not a good photographer yet, but I will be. I also want to learn how to edit photos.

8. I can't fall asleep in my own bed unless Erik is home. That isn't good when he works until 12am and I have to be up at 5. I have no trouble falling asleep at other people's houses without him there though.

9. I did not sleep through the night in our first three months of being married. I would wake up every time Erik moved or I moved and accidentally touched him. It was frustrating. I enjoy the extra warmth now.

10. I love writing letters. I think they are much more intimate. Snail mail is wonderful.

11. I was a First Year/Freshman in college three years in a row at three different schools in three different cities. Man it feels good to be a second year (although I would rather be graduating).

12. I love human biology. Mainly anatomy and physiology. Grade 12 Bio was a great course, as was my anatomy and physiology course last year.

13. I love Disney movies. LOVE THEM!

14. I wish I could play the piano. My sister Sharlene and my niece Jessica are both amazing and I could sit and listen to them for hours. Jessica played for my wedding and her playing alone brought tears to my eyes.

15. I walked down the aisle to Glasgow Love Theme from the movie Love Actually.

16. My sister Lindsey picked it out. She wanted to walk down the aisle to it, but got married in Costa Rica so that didn't quite work out for her.

17. I love people watching.

18. I can cry at the drop of a hat. I cry in movies, commercials, books, from hearing a story or listening to music. I cry in anticipation for something tragic or wonderful in a movie that I have already seen. I even cried in the Little Mermaid last summer.

19. My favorite part of a bag of crackers is the very end. I love the salt and the crumbs at the bottom. I also love the brown side of the Stone Wheat Thins.

20. My mom buys books for us at Christmas. She always has. It has always been what I most look forward to. She has given us books that we read as kids over the years... and we all get the same ones. It is quite fun.

21. I'm pretty last minute. My mom made my grad dress the day before grad... without a pattern.

22. I am forever calling people (usually at the last minute) asking to borrow clothes when I need to dress up. I usually rope whoever it is into doing my hair and make-up for me before I head out.

23. I have only put mascara on myself (I finally bought some for my wedding). If I need more than that I recruit someone else.

24. I have never owned a brush. Or a blow-dryer.

25. I cut my hair off for Locks of Love two years ago and never once regretted it.

26. Erik loved my long hair.

27. I have played every position in a college volleyball game, except libero. I have started a game as a setter, right-side, power and middle.

28. That being said, I don't excel at any of those positions. I'm just an all-around kinda player.

29. I love laughter that brings tears to my eyes.

30. I love fresh sheets.

31. I baked my first loaf of bread from scratch and by hand last week. It was whole wheat, pumpkin seed, flax bread. Keeps you regular.

32. I have had all my thank-you cards completed since before Christmas but haven't sent out any. All the addresses are on my computer that pooped out on me.

33. Both college volleyball teams I played for won the Team Academic Awards. We were pretty smart.

34. I have been riding the bus for months now and I'm still nervous navigating them. I am especially afraid of the doors not opening when I want to get off. Some you have to push, some just open, some you aren't supposed to touch at all. I always sit behind them so that I can see what other people do. I have even missed my stop intentionally because I didn't want to look silly... thankfully someone got off at the next stop so I didn't have to walk too far.

35. I am addicted to cards. Buying them, sending them, collecting them. I have tons from when I worked at the thrift store. That was a rockin' job.

36. My all-time favorite job was working at Schneider's. I packaged smokies for two summers. It was awesome. I still dream about it and i get excited when talking about it!

37.I put hours into teaching myself to crack my knuckles. My friend, Rachael, did it and I loved the sound. It was a painful process, but I can now crack all of my knuckles.

38. I had one day to pick out my wedding dress.

39. I hate taking showers because I hate being cold when I come out of them.

40. I hate drying off with a damp towel. Same reason.

41. I used to use Q-tips infrequently just so I could have a lot of gunk on them when I did use them. That was a while ago. I promise.

42. I wish I was more resourceful and creative.

43. I aspire to be like my sister-in-law Shawna. I don't feel I'm ready to commit to living that much "greener" though. She recommends all these great books, but I feel as though I would be momentarily enthused and then forget all about it. I'm hoping to do some canning etc in the summer. I need to take baby steps. We recycle.

44. I have always dreamed of living in Africa for a while. Now I'm up for anywhere...

45. Transitioning into married life was more natural than I thought it would be. I love it.

46. I am addicted to the game Bohnanza. I make Erik play it with me all the time.

This is Joey. I like to call him Joseph... or stinky.

Tuesday, February 03, 2009

Apache Blessing

This has been on my sister's fridge since we moved here and I never actually read it until today. I kind of like it. I've always liked blessings.

may the sun
bring you new energy by day,
may the moon
softly restore you by night,
may the rain
wash away your worries,
may the breeze
blow new strength into your being.
may you walk
gently through the world and know
its beauty all the days of your life.

Friday, January 23, 2009

Update

Ashley is lazy and she always tries to get me to update her blog.

Love,

Erik

Wednesday, January 07, 2009

Notice of Vehicle Impound

Our car broke down on New Year's Eve as we were returning from Stanwood, Washington. To make a long story short, the alternator died we were going to buy the part and Erik's brother was going to install it. We used the cops phone to call Erik's brother to come rescue us. We left the car on the side of the road because the guys assured me that we had a couple days until it was towed. That was before it snowed. We went back the next evening to install the alternator and our car was not there. No one could have stolen it because there is no way you could have started the thing. We spent the next day calling around trying to find out car. Then, after being charged an astronomical fee, we pushed our car out of the impound and came back later that evening to install the alternator before coming home.

Today, I received in the mail a "Notice of Vehicle Impound" informing us that we have 120 hours from the time of impoundment to redeem our car or else it will be declared abandoned and sold at an auction to the highest bidder.

Our car was impounded on January 1, 2009 at 8:30am and we received the letter at roughly 6:30pm on January 7, 2009... that's about 152 hours after impoundment meaning our car would have been auctioned off yesterday.

Thanks for informing us.

Happy New Year

We're three days in and I already didn't have to go to clinical today.

I am not looking forward to this semester. First, I have to commute to Vernon three days a week for clinical. Second, I am on a medical floor which does not interest me in the slightest. Third, I am so sick of school.

The longer I'm in nursing, the less I want to do it. I don't want to work in a hospital. Ever. I'm hoping this is a phase I am going through. You know, like the terrible two's... There has to be a light at the end of the tunnel. I just have to get through 15 more weeks... then two more years, but I'm hoping those will be better. It's not even that I'm doing poorly. I think I would make a great nurse, but I don't know if I will LOVE it. I want to love what I am doing. There are so many things you can do with with a nursing degree that I don't even know about and I am hoping to find something I do love.

On a more positive note Erik gave me my birthday present yesterday, two days early, because he works tonight and tomorrow night. He gave me a lovely picture frame with three of our wedding photos in it. I think it is beautiful!

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Productivity.

Since my last update I have been rather productive. In the past eight days I have:

- Had a bake-athon with my girlfriends
- Read three books
- Cleaned the dreaded closet
- Written some letters and cards
- Finished most of my Thank you cards (although I still don't have access to any of the addresses)
- Slept in
- Gone to Stanwood and back
- Finished almost all of my Christmas shopping

So, this Bake-athon we had... It was insanity! We were baking for over 10 hours. We made 11 recipes and doubled each one! We made everything from peanut brittle to gingerbread cookies to no-bake cookies to chocolate balls to biscotti and much much more. We were so sick of it by the end. Not to mention the fact that we were utterly overwhelmed by the quantity of cookies we were supposed to be taking home with us.

On to my readings.
"Night" by Elie Wiesel - Fantastic. Highly recommended. It's the authors record of surviving the holocaust and the terrifying things that he lived through. Short book, very moving.
"Stolen Innocence" by Elissa Wall - A bit slow at first, but by the end I didn't want to put it down. This was more informative than I expected. It's about the author's experience growing up in a polygamous sect. She was a teenage bride and eventually broke free of the community. The author does a good job defending certain aspects of the polygamous community while unveiling some of the horrors that occur. The book is written with sincerity, love and sadness for the people she left.
"My Sister's Keeper" by Jodi Picoult - Another highly recommended read. Erik even made me read this one aloud to him in the car while we were driving because it is so well written. It's about a little girl who was born because her parents wanted a genetic match for her older sister who has leukemia. This little girl has undergone so many procedures to keep her sister alive and healthy and she has finally decided that she doesn't want to anymore. It's about a family's struggle to do what is right.

I should go wake Erik up... Have a good day!

Monday, December 08, 2008

Woops

Erik got off work at 12:00am. I was supposed to pick him up, but I fell asleep on the couch and didn't wake up until 12:39am. I jumped in the car and FLEW to his work. There I sat outside, embarrassed waiting for him to come out and scold me. I switched to the passenger seat. About 15 minutes later these two guys came out asking me what I was doing there. They informed me that Erik had decided to walk home. I eventually found him and humbly picked him up... now totally embarrassed... and a bit frustrated! Who walks home at 1:00am?!?!?!?!

Oh yeah, guys whose wives forget to pick them up.

Saturday, December 06, 2008

My Christmas List

There are so many things I want to do this Christmas.

The not-so-fun things:
- Clean my house, including that dreaded closet. We have this walk in storage space that's about the size of a walk in closet that's all cement with some make-shift cupboards that is a disaster! We moved in the day before school started and I have been putting it off until now. It is time!
- Get on top (and stay on top) of laundry. I currently have five loads to do. Yes, that is all of our clothing. At least we have clean towels... that's a plus right??
- Fix my computer. For some reason the screen won't turn on anymore. The computer sounds fine but something isn't connecting. That is bad because all the addresses are on there for our wedding "Thank you" cards. (Yes I left those until Christmas too)

The "me-time" things:
- Read. I haven't been able to enjoy reading for the past two years. I have only read nursing books and that isn't cutting it. I tried to read in the summer, but there was too much to do and reading just wasn't enjoyable when I wasn't busy. I miss falling asleep reading.
- Walk. When we first moved here I walked all the time. I loved it until school became too busy and sucked the life out of me.
- Write in my journal on occasion. I blame this mostly on Erik. I share everything with him and it feels redundant and tiring to write it all down either before or after I talk to him about it. I love writing my thoughts though. I think better that way. Now I'll have time too! (I hope)
- Write letters to people. There is nothing better than getting a hand-written letter by snail mail. I think they are so precious and much more intimate and personal.

The fun things:
- Bake! I'm getting together with my girlfriends on Monday and we are baking 16 dozen cookies together. We are doing 2 dozen of 8 recipes so it should be good.
- Make a gingerbread house with Erik. That will just be fun.
- Write Thank You Cards. This will not always be fun, but I like connecting with people and it gives me an opportunity to write some people that I would not normally send mail to.
- Go to Stanwood for Erik's Alaska Fishermen Christmas party.
- Go home for Stewart's wedding.
- Go home and then to Stanwood for Christmas and Mom's birthday.

And of course there's always:
- drinking tea
- lighting candles
- sleeping in
- enjoying rooms lit by nothing by Christmas lights

And that's just off the top of my head!

Friday, December 05, 2008

Oh Bother

I know I should really be studying right now. I have a bio exam at 9:30 tomorrow morning and I haven't started studying for it, but I just wrote my nursing exam this afternoon and I am exhausted! I hate nursing exams. Sometimes I feel I would do better if I didn't study at all (ok, that's an exaggeration, maybe if I studied LESS) because their questions are often ridiculous. I over think things wanting to have the answer somewhere, but I don't. I guess so often and that frustrates me! I have adopted the "I just have to pass" attitude... ok that's a lie too, but I wish I could.
My Christmas holiday starts as of 11:30 tomorrow. Hallelujah!

Friday, November 21, 2008

No More Surgical Floor!

Today was my last day on the Surgical Unit at KGH. I really enjoyed the semester on the floor, but I am not sad that it is over. I could actually see my self starting on a surgical unit. Well... here is a lame picture I made Erik take on my first day of clinical. I know it's silly, but my mom used to take pictures of us on our first days of school and so I thought it would be cute? No? Oh well. It made me smile.

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Phone Call from France

My dear friend Alicia moved to France in the middle of August. Two weeks before my wedding. She has been my "best friend" since before I knew her. Her family lived in Ontario and I knew of them because they were friends of my parents, but I didn't know who she was. She moved here when I was in grade 1 and she was in grade 3 and we have been great friends ever since.

Anyway. She called me today when I came home from clinical and it was WONDERFUL to talk to her! She wasn't able to make it to my wedding, which was a bummer, but she got to move to France to fulfill a dream she has had since we were wee ones. She is playing professional volleyball in Europe and I am so so proud of her!

I got to talk to her today and it was GRRREEAAATTTT!

On another note. Tomorrow is my last day of clinical for the semester! Yippee!